If you live in Canada you are probably celebrating Thanksgiving this weekend. The challenge of the weekend is to have fun, enjoy your friends and relatives and get through the weekend without gaining 300 pounds!
You can promise yourself to “be good” and forgo all the goodies or you can be realistic and let yourself indulge A BIT knowing that you will go back to your regular eating plan after the weekend is over. That’s what ALL my skinny mini friends do … AND modeling what slim, trim people do to stay that way is a great way for us BLOBS to get that way.
Becoming slimmer becomes a horrible “chore” if you don’t give yourself a break now and then. And what normally happens is that eventually you go on a binge and stay on the binge … until the next time you decide to lose weight.
If we look at becoming slimmer and healthier as a long-term activity that includes more activity and a healthier eating plan, we are more likely to stay for the long term. If we look at losing weight as a punishment for past transgressions, and we deny ourselves the “holidays” of life, then we are doomed for failure.
I have been following the 40-30-30 eating plan, where one balances carbs (40%) with protein (30%) and fat (30%) at EVERY meal. The best version of the plan is to keep your blood sugars even throughout the day by eating 5 to 6 smaller meals spread out throughout your waking hours.
So given than Thanksgiving Dinner is usually one big blow out … here is my plan: I’ll start the day as usual, with my small meals … I’m going to a friends for dinner. I know that she usually has before dinner appetizers. So when I get there, one of my small meals will be a few appetizers … and I will try to stick to my 40-30-30 balance by at least incorporating some protein and carbs (the easy part). I will have a FEW appetizers, and then I’ll STOP.
At dinner I will model my skinny minny friend and will load up my plate with the same serving sizes she uses. (Well, maybe a bit more since I am twice her size!)
She usually serves dessert later in the evening. That is perfect for me. I can forgo the dessert and raid her refrigerator for leftovers of the appetizers. I have found it easier and easier to forgo dessert since I have been on the 40-30-30 plan, not because it is forbidden, but because I find myself wanting sweets less and less (this is great news to me).
So what can YOU do? Plan a strategy like the one I have outlined above. Don’t plan on depriving yourself, but do plan on what you will have, and when you will stop. If you don’t have a plan it is far too easy to keep on telling yourself “just one more.”
If you are celebrating Thanksgiving … have a FABULOUS WEEKEND. Drive safely and as Wayne Dwyer would say “treat your relatives KINDLY.” I’m going to add to that with … “Treat YOURSELF kindly!“